I am not sure if people come into our lives to teach us something about ourselves. I am weary of believing that’s the absolute truth because it may take away accountability from people for their bad behaviour. Absolving them of their faults because ‘every thing happens for a reason’.
I think this one of the reason people resist forgiveness, because it can feel like we are abandoning a part of ourselves that needs an acknowledgment that a wrong was done.
I only know that we can learn a lot from observing the ‘actors’ in the story of our life. There are people in our life who reflect to us how we reject ourselves, how we silence ourselves, how we deny our power and the beauty of who we are.
They way they treat us, reflect to us the part of us that is still in enmity with ourselves. I’m not sure if we should absolve them of their responsibility. I know we should welcome the opportunity this observation gives us.The opportunity to heal those parts of us. To integrate all parts to the unity of our purpose.
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